Sometimes It is Better to be Kind Than Right

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I learned something from a valued friend today.

Sometimes, in wanting to show that one is right, we lose sight of the importance of kindness. While winning a discussion can give us a sense of validation and pride, it may come at the cost of damaging relationships and causing pain to others. In such instances, it becomes better to prioritize kindness over being right.

Kindness has the power to heal, to build bridges of understanding. It can soften hearts, mend broken connections, and create an environment of empathy and compassion. It promotes teamwork and inspires team members to strive harder for the company. Choosing kindness over the need to prove oneself right can lead to a more harmonious interaction, and create a more positive impact to our community and the world around us.

Being kind doesn’t mean surrendering our principles or beliefs, but rather approaching conflicts with empathy and understanding. It allows us to listen, acknowledge the perspectives of others, and find common ground, leading to more constructive and respectful discussions. Being kind means being able to raise issues tactfully, with a shared win for all as the goal rather than a complete, yet lonely victory for one side.

Therefore, while being right is important, it is equally if not more important to be kind. Kindness has the ability to create lasting positive change and more meaningful relationships, making it a valuable virtue to prioritize in our interactions with others.

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      1. Thank you Charly… it is indeed, Change always starts from within ourselves.. Learning to be kind, and compassionate. A lot of people want to be heard, from their point of view… and often just do not listen to another who has a differing opinion ..

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        1. True. The listening – the lack of it – is almost always the big obstacle. I watch the Israel -Palestine discussions and almost always both sides are trying to outscream each other. If only we can learn to listen.

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  2. OOooops… Sent before adding.. Walking in the middle road, seeing both sides is hard, but needed for a balanced view. While we may KNOW we are right, one has to see things from another’s perspective, and have to have perhaps walked in their shoes to see their perspectives..

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